Making requests

in our community, people are divided into different groups. To identify what groups they are, I have made a map which includes a scale and a category of how these groups are made and what are their beliefs and opinions.

I also used this map to compare and contrast how I feel when i was at home in Vietnam and how my attitude has changed in ISAK.

Whenever I need help, or in most situations in life, I have to make requests. However, not all of the times, we know the correct way to make a polite and suitable request for everyone.thus, in leading self class, we have learned this content and the structure of how to make a request.

First step: Awareness

Be aware of the other person's feeling and the objective of the conversation.

Second step: Empathy

Relate with the needs of the other person

Third step: Proposal

Ask your request in a nice way. Do not use accusing words.